“Fools find no pleasure in understanding but delight in airing their own opinions." (Proverbs 18:2, NIV)
Have you ever known someone who loved to hear the sound of their own voice? Or a person who never really seemed to listen, but always cut you off with their own story or advice? How about someone who always seemed to know exactly how you felt and what you were going through, even though they never took the time to actually understand your situation?
I've known many, many people like that in my life. And, if I'm honest, there are times when I've been one of those people! If you've ever been on the receiving end of such a person, you can testify to the truth of Proverbs 18:2. A person who doesn't really care about you but just wants to hear himself wax eloquently, shows himself for a fool. He may think he's wowing you with his wisdom and brilliance, when in reality he's making a donkey of himself because he won't shut up.
Everyone struggles with pride in one way or another. All of us have opinions, but we need to remember that sometimes our opinions don't matter. Often what someone needs is our attention, not our advice. Our care, not our solutions. Our prayer, not our opinions. One of the greatest gifts you can give someone is the gift of being understood, and being loved in the understanding.